[looks over at you, a little startled]

I mean--I'm pissed at him about it, but sometimes, yeah. Look, I haven't been here for a lot of... whatever happened when I wasn't here. But it's not like he doesn't care. If I thought he wasn't trying I wouldn't be bothering--that's not the problem. It's just really hard. For him, anyway. That's just what I figured I was getting into when I said yes. It's not like it's some huge surprise.